I’ve always been bad at goodbyes. My whole life, for as long as I can remember, I always avoided saying the g-word. I’d say “see you later” or “see you soon” but never goodbye. Part of that is my positive attitude – I always choose to believe the best and look on the bright side and that includes saying goodbye to people. Why say farewell when instead I can hope I’ll see them sometime in the future? In this life you never know who you will work with again, run into again, see again. Why assume it is the end if perhaps it’s about to be a different beginning?
But let’s be honest. Maybe part of my failure to say that seven-letter word is denial as well. I’m the type of person who gives 200% in everything I do. I don’t just stick a toe in the water – I dive head first into the deep end – and that’s whether the waters are calm and clear; dark and unknown; or even full of sharks! To say I commit to what I do sort of sounds like an understatement as I write it. Is there a stronger word than commit? If there is, that’s what I do. And that (you fill in the blank…loyalty? intense dedication? craziness?) makes it hard to say goodbye.
The same is true as I prepare to leave Volunteers of America Chesapeake. Yes, I’m blessed with a new, exciting opportunity and for that I am especially thankful. But that doesn’t make the g-part any easier. For more than 2 ½ years I’ve given my all – first as the Community Development Coordinator at our Residential Program Center – and then when I was promoted to Communications & Media Relations Manager for the entire organization. I became the branding guru (or brand cop as some of my colleagues have “lovingly” called me!) and helped the organization unveil Called to Care – a new tagline reflecting the organization’s deep 116-year history and faith-based Ministry of Service I created our annual reports, wrote our newsletters (sign up here!) and crafted press releases. I launched our new website, Facebook and Twitter pages. I wrote and produced two new videos: Because You Were Called to Care and A History of Caring. I even had the distinct pleasure of combining my journalism skills (remember I told you my first day I’m a former TV reporter and anchor?) with my love for helping others through my Courtney’s Quest 15-video campaign (click here for one of my favorites) and this Courtney’s Quest blog.
So instead of saying the g-word I’ll instead say the t-word: thank you.
Thank you to all of the 650 staff members at Volunteers of America Chesapeake who inspire me every day through the life-changing work you do.
Thank you to our more than 10,000 clients – many who opened their heart to share the stories of their lives with me and gave me the honor of sharing them with others. I will be forever touched and changed by your strength and unwavering hope.
Thank you to the more than 2,000 volunteers, including our awesome Action Team students at St. Stephen’s & St. Agnes School in Alexandria, H-B Woodlawn School and Washington- Lee High School in Arlington, VA who passionately support our programs and the individuals we serve.
Thank you to the Volunteers of America national office, who I had the pleasure of collaborating with on amazing projects such as the Birthday Wishes program at our Pratt House and Loudoun Homeless Services Center.
Thank you to the Fannie Mae Help the Homeless Walkathon. For three years I was privileged to help lead this initiative and loved getting to know the schools, students, families and individuals who chose to walk to support our Homeless Services programs.
Thank you to all of my colleagues in the non-profit field I’ve met through organizations like NonProfit Roundtable and working together to make a difference in our world.
Thank you to all of the reporters who covered our stories and our wonderful PR firm Clapp Communications who helped that happen. It’s been so rewarding working with you to share the life-changing work Volunteers of America Chesapeake is doing.
Thank you to Mid-Atlantic Design & Print and Sir Speedy for working with me to create our collateral materials and Citra Productions for shooting and editing our videos. As a creative person (but who can barely draw stick-figures!) I’ve loved seeing my visions turned into reality. Thank you for the long hours you’ve put in for our perfect products.
Thank you to everyone who supports this organization and whose donations have made making a difference possible.
In her congratulations note Volunteers of America Chesapeake’s Chaplain, Rev. Sandra Trice Gray reminded me that: “To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under the heaven.” Ecclesiastes 3:1.
Well, I looked up the rest of the verse and as I prepare to leave (my last day is February 10), found comfort a little farther down in verse 12 (NIV) “I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live.”
Thank you for helping me to “do good” and be happy here. I look forward to continuing to make that my goal in all I do, wherever I go.
Thank you for reading and here’s to hoping I see you soon!
~ Courtney








